This comes
up because the Fire Starter book (see previous blog) exercises seem to
be unusually efficient at getting to the core of what one loves to do. At the top of all my lists is Deep Thinking,
and Writing (or Talking about) what I’m thinking about. I’ve kept a journal most of my adult
life, at times waking up in the wee hours so that I could write before work. Even during the years, even decades, that I
did not sing, I kept writing. Writing
was the thing I couldn’t “NOT” do, like breathing. But what I wrote was stuffed into the
proverbial box, kept away from view.
Of course,
while many of us have been taught to be “critical thinkers,” society as a whole
would probably prefer that we not be too successful at it. I mean, I can poke intellectual holes in just
about every construct in our world, from capitalism to health care to religion. I can understand and assess
situations on a dime, and express myself about them (although until now I have
mostly held back, or tried to communicate with unwelcoming audiences!) And having recently come
to understand the Law of Attraction power of my thoughts, I’m much more
conscious of being aware of what my thoughts may be
attracting, and am training myself to be mostly positive and uplifting in my thinking
and writing, rather than "critical," per se.
Some people
are creators. Some people are growers. Some
people are explorers. Some people are fighters. Some people are buyers or sellers. Some people teach. Some people nurture. Some people heal. I’m learning that I am a “thinker and expresser.” The spiritual and intellectual energy coming
through me must express. For decades, I
tried to be an artist because the end results were powerful, but I couldn’t
stand to spend more than an hour painting, so I was not successful. And while I still have an intense connection
to a unique choral music tradition, there is still a disconcerting disconnect
between what I really believe and the words coming out of my mouth. It is only when I write – or converse with
relatively like-minded people – that I am the fullest expression of “me.” In a recent interview, I was asked what I saw
myself doing in five years’ time. I
said, “Living in England and writing.” I
did not get the position! But the moment
those five words came out of my mouth, I felt a jolt. The truth about “home” and my identity had
finally come out.
Sorry,
Mom. And yet…I know that she was a deep
thinker, too, with an extraordinary speaking voice. In today’s world, she might have clawed her
way out of the box as well! As time goes on, perhaps more and more youngsters will be encouraged to think their wildest, most independent thoughts and dreams, and express them openly. And their parents will say, "Bravo!" Perhaps they are saying it today!